Daud's a grandparent now, everyone knows that job is literally to do nothing but backseat parent all the time. Sorry wiggly baby, it's your mom's job to discipline you now!

"Being a commonly reviled species doesn't usually lend itself well to social opportunities." Also, her mom being occasionally dead probably doesn't help. "In another time, she might have been raised like a princess, like Adira's dragon in Didymos. Now she's a fugitive."